Dislocated Joints

A few weeks ago, a dear friend of mine took a bad fall as she was leaving book club one night (yes, this is what happens to folks my age! We fall walking down the sidewalk rather than flying down the ski slope or parasailing in the tropics!). She dislocated her shoulder, and she said it was the worst pain she had ever felt in her life. Now mind you, she has had 5 children, so she knows a thing or two about pain! Moreover, she is one strong, athletic woman who played varsity basketball at UNC, so her pain threshold is far higher than average Joe's like me. She said the pain literally knocked her off her feet, and it was so intense that she could not even think or speak. One dislocated shoulder.

Then suddenly the other day it hit me: all His joints were dislocated. Psalm 22 prophesied the horrific crucifixion of the Lord Jesus. Apparently, the words of the Psalmist accurately predicted and portrayed what would happen in this Roman form of capital punishment--from raging fever to severe dehydration to the effect on the heart and on and on. But listen to Ps.22:14 "I am poured out like water, and all my bones are out of joint."

Somehow that aspect of suffering slipped by me, since I was ignorant concerning the horrible pain resulting from a dislocated joint. My dear friend was in agony from one dislocated shoulder. My Saviour had every bone out of joint while He hung on the cross. And unlike my friend, He had already endured hours of scourging, beating, and abuse. He had been betrayed by His friends and humiliated and taunted by His enemies. And He, who had never known sin in His whole life, bore the awful, unimaginable weight of every sin that had ever been or would ever be committed, in His nail scarred, battered, bruised body.

And add to all that, the pain of dislocated joints. For you. For me. And I had never thanked Him for that. Such is the depth and breath and length and height of His love for us. Thank You Lord Jesus for bearing my sin on the cross. I cannot imagine Your pain...but O how I thank You. To You be the glory forever.

Now to Him who is able

Thank You Lord for this glorious day! This truly is the day You have made and I thank You that I can rejoice in it! The warmth, the sunshine, the chorus of birds outside, the brilliant red camellia bush outside my door, the ability to take a deep breath and think about Your goodness. Thank You Lord.

The other day, one of my children shared discouragement over an overwhelming workload at school, another child was frustrated over persistent crippling foot pain, another struggled with school work issues and on and on. I KNOW to PRAY and not worry. I know that I know that I know. But, forgive me Lord, I'm praying on the outside but fretting on the inside. I will hand over my cares and concerns to the Almighty and the next thing I know, I am anxiously twisting and turning them over in my mind like some mental rubric's cube, and I forfeit the peace and joy and strength the Lord longs to give me. The Lord demonstrates His faithfulness and provision over and over again and yet, along comes a bump in the road, and I'm ready to run off the road in panic and despair.

I don't know why the Lord puts up with the likes of me! If I were God, I certainly wouldn't. O, but for this we have Jesus. "But God shows His love for us in that, while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Rom. 5:8 Did you notice, there's another one of those, "but God's?" We mess up, we fail, we fall, we flounder...but God. We know we are to pray and not worry, and yet we do just the opposite...but God died for us even knowing we would fail again and again all the way to heaven. We know we are to rely on His power and strength and yet we get busy doing things in our own paltry strength and we crash and burn. And as we lift our bleary eyes from the ashes, He gently reminds us "but God" died for all our crashes and mess ups and, incredibly, He loves us just as much as if we never sinned. Who can explain a love like that?!

Okay, I digress. Here's what I was thinking about this morning. We are studying the book of Ephesians in Bible study, and Eph. 3:20 has come to my mind over and over. "Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly that all we ask or think, according to the power at work within us" (and v. 21 "to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen." Amen to that!!) Driving back from carpool, it was if the Lord said, "break it down and really think about all this is saying to you, Emily!" "Now"--right at this moment. Today. What do you need today? His power and provision are available to us right at this minute--whether we are driving children around or doing laundry or going to work or sitting by a loved one's bedside or encouraging a desperate friend. He is the eternal God of NOW! Sure, eternity is coming, praise God, but right now, right in the ditches and muddy pits of our everyday lives He is here and available now!

"To Him"--okay, so don't take it for granted--it's Him, Almighty God, Creator, Sustainer, Redeemer. The Alpha and Omega, the very very beginning and the very very ultimate end (if there were an end!) The omniscient, the omnipresent, the omnipotent--think of a word and put omni in front of it and you get the idea! Sort of makes you calm down when you realize the Lord who created the vast solar system is with you and He can handle whatever you are facing right this very moment, doesn't it?

"Who is able"--what can I say? He is able! He is able! He is able! He is able! He is able! He is able! Tell yourself that a thousand times of day when dread and worry and inadequacy threaten to swamp your little boat--you are not able "but God" is able! O let me say it again, because I love to hear it--HE IS ABLE!

And it that were not enough: He is able "to do"--He can do it. Now, I'm a big doer. When there's a problem, I immediately shift into "what can I do" mode. (You did notice that pronoun, "I," didn't you?) Who can I call? Who can I ask? What can I do to make this problem go away? What can I say or do... But He is able to do. For pete's sake, we need to go to Him and ask Him "to do" what we can't. I can get lost going to the grocery store. I can't remember the name of my son's dorm room (pathetic, I know). I can't seem to get rid of clutter or stop eating sweets or cease nagging my children. But He is able to do what I can't. Thank You Lord!

But He doesn't just "do" a little. That would still be pretty spectacular, you know, since He is the Lord of the universe, so His little would be waaaaaay waaaaaaay beyond anything I could ever do. "But God" is able to do "far more abundantly than all we ask or think." Unbelievable. I don't even know how to comment on that! Who can even get their minds around that? "Far more abundantly"--God's "abundantly" is like the difference between a the ocean and a microscopic drop of water. And He does abundantly more than we could ever even dream up in our wildest and most improbable of dreams. Our minds can range pretty far--He is so far beyond that we can't even come up with a metaphor! Paul just says it best "far more abundantly than all we ask or think." Wow. That is power.

But here's the ridiculous part: "According to the power at work within us." That superabundant, supernatural power is at work IN US! The God of eternity and space has placed His power within us as He works in us and through us to His glory. What kind of God would do that?--give away His power to frail, failure-prone people? What kind of God would give His power to those who He knows will reject Him and refuse to listen to Him?

"For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life." John 3:16

Look at the cross and You will see what kind of God. Such is our Saviour and there is none other. And whatever you are facing, right now...He... is able... to do... abundantly more... than all we ask or think... according to the power at work in us. With Paul we say, "to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen."

No more death

Just a few days ago, my husband and I left the home of some friends who had just lost their 27 year old son who had died in his sleep. Grief and pain etched deeply on their faces, how I longed to be able to do something, to say something to ease their sorrow. But what could be said, what could be done to lift such an unimaginable burden? Only our heavenly Father knows such a fearsome, searing loss for He gave His only, beloved Son on our behalf. And once again, I am confronted with His sacrificial love that is beyond comprehension.

Jesus, too, knew the horrific price of sin and death. He lost His earthly father, Joseph. But it is the loss of His dear friend, Lazarus, that always moves me. When their brother was desperately ill, Mary and Martha immediately asked Jesus to come to heal him, as He had healed so many others. But Jesus waited, knowing that Lazarus would die and knowing that He had a greater plan than any of them could imagine, for as He told His disciples, "Lazarus has died and for your sake I am glad that I was not there, so that you may believe." (John 11:14-15)

When Jesus finally arrived, Lazarus had been dead four days. Jesus, the Omnipotent One, knew all this. Moreover, He knew that He was about to raise Lazarus from the dead...and yet, Scripture tells us that "Jesus wept." (John 11:35) He wept at the terrible price of sin. He wept at the sorrow and unremitting pain of death. He wept for the grieving friends and relatives. He grieved for a world marred by death and loss and separation and disappointment and betrayal and fear. Jesus wept for a world where young sons die. Jesus wept for a world where earthquakes and tsunamis wipe out entire villages, destroy thousands of innocent lives, and decimate homes and farms and businesses. Watching the horrific destruction and death in Japan, we weep. And Jesus weeps.

Because this is not how it was supposed to be.

But this is not how it will always be either.

Jesus tells Mary and Martha "I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in Me, though he die, yet shall he live, and everyone who lives and believes in Me shall never die." John 11:25-26 Moments later Jesus demonstrated the truth of what He had just said, as He goes to the tomb, already smelling of decomposition and death and commands "Lazarus, come out." (John 11:43) "The man who had died came out, his hands and feet bound with linen strips, and his face wrapped with a cloth. Jesus said to them, 'Unbind him, and let him go." (John 11:44) From death to life. From bound to free. From sorrow to joy. Jesus is the Resurrection and the Life and He truly makes all things new. New life. New hopes. New beginnings. New mercies.

How we praise Him that when we have lost a dearly loved child or parent or friend or sibling, if they are in Christ, then we WILL see them again. We can take that to the bank--they are not actually "lost" for we know exactly where they are and we know with certainty that we will find them again one day...for all of eternity.

But for now, we grieve--just as Jesus grieved for the death of His beloved friend whom He knew He was about to raise from the dead. We weep for all the years we will miss talking to them on the phone or laughing with them or hugging them or watching them grow and change. We weep for the missed opportunities and the missed commonplace moments that we took for granted but that we so long for now. We weep because we miss their advice or their jokes or their eccentricities or their smile.

Yet in the midst of our grieving and pain, Jesus comes to us and whispers to us, "It will not always be this way. Take heart. Look unto Me." Early the other morning, as I pondered all the sorrow of this family's loss and the tragedy in Japan, I read these words: "Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the the throne saying, 'Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be His people, and God Himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away. And He who was seated on the throne said, 'Behold, I am making all things new.'" Rev.21:1-5

What unspeakable joy--a world without tears and pain and death and failure! A world made new and perfect, redeemed by the One who died to save it. A world where we never say "goodbye" or "I'm sorry" or "O no" or "not again." Thank You Lord Jesus for the promise and hope of heaven. Thank You that You are the Resurrection and the Life. And thank You for dying for us that we might live with You and our loved ones forever and ever and ever. To You be all the glory.

The glorious forsaking

That glorious form, that light insufferable,

And that far-beaming blaze of majesty,

Wherewith He wont at heaven's high council table,

To sit the midst of Trinal Unity,

He laid aside; and here with us to be,

Forsook the courts of everlasting day,

And chose with us a darksome house of mortal clay.

John Milton

Can we ever get over the wonder of that?...That the Sovereign Lord of the universe, the second part of the Trinity, the Lord Jesus, willingly "laid aside" all, and "forsook the courts of everlasting day" and the attendant and infinite wonders of heaven in order to "chose with us a darksome house of mortal clay." How can it be? I think if we had even an inkling of all that our Saviour forsook to leave the throne of heaven as well as how far down He came to enter the miry, dark depths of humanity, we would be overwhelmed with gratitude and joy every single day of our lives. We cannot imagine the greatness of heaven nor the sordidness of our sin-sick world, but if we could but glimpse the stunning contrast between what He gave up and what He came to, all out of His love for us, we would never complain again about anything in our lives.

For truly, in comparison to the sacrifice of my Saviour, what is my "light and momentary affliction" in the words of Paul? Can I not "count it all joy," as my Lord did, as He faced the cross? Can I not give up my rights or my desires and take up my cross and follow Him? Surely I can die to myself and my selfishness when I gaze at Him and contemplate what He did. What sacrifice can be too great when I consider the sacrifice that He made for me?

The great Scottish preacher from the early 1800's wrote: "For every look at yourself, take ten looks at Christ." Preoccupation with self always results in discouragement and defeat and despair. Preoccupation with Christ always results in praise and perspective and personal victory over sinful attitudes.

So today, look up and rejoice in a Saviour who forsook the most glorious in order to chose the most lowly and ignominious all for the love of you and of me. To Him be the glory!

Two mighty words!

Today is Ash Wednesday, the first day that many Christians observe as Lent--a time to focus upon the Lord Jesus, remember the sufferings of our Saviour, and remember all that Christ has done for us. I am reading a chapter a day (roughly) over the course of Lent from the classic devotional book, The Incomparable Christ, by Oswald Sanders (and listening to Nancy Leigh DeMoss as she focuses on this book during Lent). I have already been so challenged by fixing my gaze on the Lord Jesus and contemplating who He is and what He has done for us. How convicted I am that I need to gaze at Christ and glance at all else. All too often, however, in the frenetic busyness of life, I gaze in rapt attention at all the world has to offer while giving a merely passing glance at my Saviour. I pray that this Lenten season will change all that for me--for good.

Just the other day, I was studying Ephesians 2, and the Lord pierced my heart anew with what He has done for the world on the cross. Paul emphasizes in the first 3 verses of chapter 2 how dead we all are before Christ saved us. "And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air..." v.1-2. We were children of wrath: doomed, desperate, depraved. We were prisoners of our sinful habits and desires, "having no hope and without God in the world." v.12

I don't know about you, but I tend to forget that! I tend to get so comfortable in the world that I forget I deserved nothing but everlasting punishment and hell. I forget that, like that death row prisoner, sitting alone--hopeless and helpless--with no real future, no real freedom and no joy or peace or security save the bars of my prison cell of pride and selfishness and envy and bitterness.

And then Ephesians 2:4 begins with 2 of the most beautiful words in the english language: "But God..." Isn't that just the Gospel in a nutshell? "But God being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together in Christ--by grace you have been saved--and raised us up with Him and seated us with HIm in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus so that in the coming ages He might show the immeasurable riches of His grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing: it is the gift of God." Eph.2:4-8

But God. Adam and Eve would have perished in their sin...but God. Noah would have drowned with the rest of the hopelessly corrupt world...but God. Abraham would have died without an heir, his wife old and barren...but God. Rahab would have died when the walls of Jericho came tumbling down...but God. Failure would have been failure after the defeat at Ai of Joshua and the Israelites...but God. O, we could go on and on. Peter would have been finished and rejected after he betrayed His Lord 3 times...but God. The Christian hating Saul would have continued in his blind and hateful opposition to the Saviour...but God. Jonah, Judah, David, Samson, John Mark, Thomas--the list goes on and on--would all joyfully proclaim...BUT GOD!! And I, wretched and lost and hopeless, would have never known the joy, the peace, the wonder, the security, the love, the grace, the infinite "spiritual blessings in the heavenly places" (Eph.1:3)...but God.

But God! But God! But God! Might it be our song throughout eternity: that our Saviour left the throne of heaven and while we were imprisoned in our sin and greed and selfishness and depravity, God broke through time and space and entered His planet to redeem His creation. To the parent worried sick over a prodigal child, never forget...but God. To those struggling with broken bodies or broken marriages or broken finances, remember...but God. To the hopeless and helpless and heartbroken, o please recall...but God.

There is no place He cannot go, no situation He cannot transform, no relationship He cannot restore, no sin He cannot redeem, no heart He cannot heal. But God--the Gospel in two beautiful words. Might we reflect upon our beautiful, immeasurable, incomparable Saviour this Lenten season and to Him be the glory forever.

Our identity as moms

The other day I heard Lysa Terquerst share that "Sometimes, we moms base the solidity of our identities on the fragile choices of our children." That is so true. When my children make good choices and are doing well, I feel happy and secure and content. But when they make poor choices or when they fail in some way, I always feel like I have failed as a mom. My identity must never come from my children's successes or failures, from the organization or lack thereof of my home, from my appearance, from my friends or my stuff or my gifts. My identity and worth come from Christ. My identity comes from the fact that the God of the universe saw me, even in all my sin and failure, and said, "I choose her. I want her as my beloved child. She is my girl."

So for those of us who struggle in this area, stop building the solidity of your identity on your children's fragile choices. "On Christ the solid Rock I stand, all other ground is sinking sand." Your identity and worth comes from Christ; He is the solid Rock that will never fail or disappoint. He has loaned you those children to love and guide and mentor, but ultimately we must entrust them to Him and to His plans for each of them. We must "be courageous enough to allow God to write their testimony." To Him be the glory.

Spelling, Part II

Well, back to the dreaded spelling words again--but Peter knew those words cold! We had gone over and over them, and every time we did practice tests, he got them all correct. I could hardly wait to open his folder yesterday to see that 100 proudly emblazoned across the top of his sheet! Imagine my surprise when I inexplicably saw not a 100 but a 76--he had missed FOUR words!! Words he absolutely knew how to spell! Words we had even quickly gone over that morning. Words we had practiced and practiced and then at the crucial moment of the test, he had MISSED! I couldn't believe it! Do I sound like an upset and frustrated mama?

When he came back in the door, I'm afraid I let him have it--how on earth could he have missed all those words when he knew them so well? why didn't he proof read his work? blah blah blah. Unlike his mama, Peter was sweet and calm and quietly began copying over the words he had missed.

That's when it hit me. How much like Peter was I when it came to the failing the tests that came my way in life? I practice and practice by reading God's Word. I know what He wants me to do and how He wants me to behave. I know He desires that I love and forgive just has He has so abundantly poured out His love and forgiveness on me. I know He wants me to daily renew my mind in His Word so that when the tests of life come, I will respond out of faith and what I know rather than what I feel. I know...I definitely know...but then, I do not do.

When the test arrives and I'm tired and stressed, instead of responding in love and grace, I respond in anger and frustration. Instead of responding in faith, I respond in fear. Instead of displaying gratitude, I display discouragement. Instead of responding with praise to and preoccupation with Him, I respond with self-pity and selfishness. How often I've flunked the test even though I knew all the right answers. Paul put it this way: "So I find it to be a law that when I want to do right, evil lies close at hand. For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members." Rom.7:21-23

But here's the thing: my Savior does not respond to me as I did to me son. He never grows discouraged or disgusted. He never sighs and shakes His head or wonder where He went wrong. He never gives up or throws up in His hands in exasperation. O how grateful I am for the Lord Jesus! Again, Paul continued in Romans 7:24-25: "Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself serve the law of God with my mind, but with my flesh I serve the law of sin."

I can't do it. I will flunk those tests again and again--apart from the empowering Spirit. But my Savior enables me to do what I know, to pass the tests as I depend upon Him, moment by moment. Daily as I renew my mind in His Word, He will give me the power, when the tests come, to remember and then to act in obedience to what I know.

Thank You Lord for truly doing it all--for saving us and then sanctifying us. Help us to pass the tests that come our way each day as we apply what we know and respond in faith not fear and in obedience to Your Word rather than acquiesce to our feelings. And when we fail, thank You for Your amazing grace. Thank You for being the perfect parent...and for forgiving me when I am such an imperfect parent to the precious ones You have loaned to me. But for this we have Jesus. To God be the glory.